Doctor,patient and closest relative of patient

You may wonder what I try to write about that. As times go by, i see more and more patient and more and more of patient 's children, I find one important facts that treating patient is not a solution for patient 's disease. It means to treat patient effectively 50% -80% need a patient caregiver /children/wife good support. For example , if a patient got diabetis ,restricting patient to eat sugar or sweet food need family 's understanding of disease and support because Malaysian people like sweet food regardless they are diabetic or not . Milo is the best drink for them. They need to be monitored by their relative/children to be restraint from sweet food. People says 'spare the rod ,spoil the kid' .I will rather says if we got rod or patient 's children use the rod, patient will be keep healthy and with better quality of life longer.